I was initially intending on remaining silent on this topic, but several of my readers approached me with questions concerning what I thought on the matter. This is my response.
I am a strong advocate of Agency, in an individual's right to discover for themselves what makes them happy. While I know what makes me happy, those things might not make others happy. I in no way desire to promote the idea that there is only one set of variables that could possibly make someone happy. I don't think that's true. Each to their own, I say, and I try to respect everyone's likes and dislikes, from favorite foods to certain lifestyles.
That being said, I have observed that it is difficult to discuss the differences between our beliefs about happiness without some form of contention cropping up. I hate that. I hate debates and arguments in lieu of thinkjousts, or frank, open discussions about our differences sans winners or malice. Sometimes, I fear sharing what makes me happy will invite contention because I know it is different from what makes others happy.
Regardless, I am going to share what makes me happy.
One day, I personally hope to marry a beautiful, powerful woman in an LDS temple.
In regards to the recent Supreme Court announcement, I have many friends and family in the LGBT community (and I apologize if I referred to the collective body incorrectly) who are thrilled. I have enjoyed exploring their celebrations over this decision via social media. I am grateful that many who have previously felt limited in how they could express their happiness are now more free to so do. I am elated that love has won over contention. I am happy others are happy. I am glad each of us has the chance to discover, for ourselves, what options are available in the world to make our life complete.
The Supreme Court announcement is a polarizing topic. I personally feel as though hate has been slung at both sides from both sides. I think that is ridiculous. As I stated earlier, my goal is to marry in a LDS temple. There is nothing in that statement that attacks's anyone else's discovered happiness. I am only sharing my own thoughts.
At the same time, I respect and absolutely admire yours. So many of you are far stronger than I.
No matter what race, gender, nation, or creed you claim, you deserve the right to speak your mind without fear of hatred or malice.
In conclusion, life is a journey. This world was given to us by God so we could use our agency and explore and discover everything around us. No person should dictate limits on that process.
I am happy God has put us here to be happy.
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